tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13068669.post2910399424022683483..comments2023-10-26T00:13:23.862+11:00Comments on Depression can eat my fat arse: Ready?phishezhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03328265950758191175noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13068669.post-12001943021691510642008-10-16T13:37:00.000+11:002008-10-16T13:37:00.000+11:00Well... dating. the dating pool. back to dating.....Well... dating. the dating pool. back to dating... Okay I'm trying to think of something positive or witty or at least good words of advice. I have nothing. So I'll tell you what this brilliant guy I know always says: "there someone out there for everyone and you will find him or he will find you or you will find each other when the time is right." So say my dad.<BR/><BR/>the thing I remember about dating are three simple words: good blog fodder. Even if the date sucks you can write about it here.<BR/><BR/>I dunno my dear... good luck and have a go at it. You never know.Greyhound Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05001314301509526815noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13068669.post-58922282912870486592008-10-15T07:05:00.000+11:002008-10-15T07:05:00.000+11:00Let me throw you a line...I'll pull you to that ba...Let me throw you a line...I'll pull you to that bank and we can go for coffee after that movie. <BR/><BR/>It is understandable to be nervous, but what is it that makes us feel that way? My nervousness is brought on by my self perceived unreasonable expectations. My truth is that if there is a life companion out there for me...he will find me. But at the same time maybe I am not putting myself in the right place for him to find me. <BR/><BR/>Define what you want out of your dating adventure...do you want a good time? Then date with that expectation. If you want a relationship, then date with that expectation...It is my belief that the oposite sex can sense our expectations so let's just put it out there and see what dreams may come.musehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00209106976734146641noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13068669.post-75034887162679731892008-10-14T21:45:00.000+11:002008-10-14T21:45:00.000+11:00Get a dog and walk it on the beach--a lot of peopl...Get a dog and walk it on the beach--a lot of people talk to you---and more---<BR/>Oh, not one of those poofy little dogsClydehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13595596982769380057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13068669.post-44068372820527673182008-10-13T15:22:00.000+11:002008-10-13T15:22:00.000+11:00I went through a similar time in my life too when ...I went through a similar time in my life too when I lost the weight.<BR/>I knew when and where to get "fun" but didn't want those blokes for a relationship.<BR/><BR/>I also got stuck with the fat thoughts - "They're looking a me cause I'm fat". It was a conscious effort to change that, and it was bloody hard. But people noticed a change in attitude.<BR/><BR/>I'm yet to meet someone away from the itnernet or intoxicated at a bar... but the bar has a better success rate.Benhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12140246476160508049noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13068669.post-59425020879480580182008-10-13T13:36:00.000+11:002008-10-13T13:36:00.000+11:00I have only been in love once, a very long time ag...I have only been in love once, a very long time ago. Even the easy, casual relationships that people talk of have been elusive. Being socially inept has been devastating.<BR/><BR/>Given the glimpses here, I think you have A LOT of social skills. You WILL find success!!!<BR/><BR/>Please excuse the anon comment.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13068669.post-48707470082901209182008-10-13T13:00:00.000+11:002008-10-13T13:00:00.000+11:00Smack - I used to do dance classes, remember? I on...Smack - I used to do dance classes, remember? I only ever got one date, which fell through repeatedly. Classes cost too much moolah.<BR/><BR/>Fusion - I did internet dating. But it was just for 'fun times'. I think now my head is in a different space, but what I leaned from the other site is that I probably couldn't do it for real.<BR/><BR/><BR/>Kate - Maybe I just need a good shag and I'll be all happy again...<BR/><BR/>Stephen - I think there are more guys who do classes to meet people than girls, so of course you're going to get dates. You'd see it at dance classes. All the guys always had a girl. And most of the time I never had a partner.phishezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03328265950758191175noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13068669.post-65688120876373754162008-10-13T10:18:00.000+11:002008-10-13T10:18:00.000+11:00I'm with smack.When I was single (10 years ago) I ...I'm with smack.<BR/><BR/>When I was single (10 years ago) I took the advise that if you wanted to go duck hunting you had to go where the ducks were: i.e. I used to do massage and cooking courses.<BR/><BR/>Got me a date every single time.unique_stephenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01137046158732977521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13068669.post-67956537849271911932008-10-13T10:15:00.000+11:002008-10-13T10:15:00.000+11:00Phishy maybe you are just growing girl...you want ...Phishy maybe you are just growing girl...you want more than what you've had in the past. And you dont need to tell me it's scary, it's freakin' crazy out there..what are boys thinking, what do they want, am I good enough? what if I'm deluding myself etc etc.<BR/><BR/>But these fears are in all our heads. We just need a good slapping to wake up and get over ourselves.<BR/>:)<BR/><BR/>*SLAP*Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13068669.post-84450848541742130672008-10-13T04:52:00.000+11:002008-10-13T04:52:00.000+11:00All I ever hear about Internet dating is negetive ...All I ever hear about Internet dating is negetive stuff. I'm signing up with eHarmony right now, as well as a couple fringe ones, and I'll see what happens. I've tried looking for some groups to join too, like cath suggests but there's not much in my area, one more reason I want to move nearer a large city next year. <BR/>And you can't give up on just the chance meetings either, I have a date coming up with a woman who lives around the corner from my parents old place, and we met from her coming over to the estate sales I have been holding...<BR/>You'll find someone when you least expect it I'm sure.Fusionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05478465297213819613noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13068669.post-39947570849189809292008-10-13T00:54:00.000+11:002008-10-13T00:54:00.000+11:00Have you considered joining a photography class? O...Have you considered joining a photography class? Or cooking class? Or something that interests you?<BR/><BR/>You could once a night, and meet like-minded people.<BR/><BR/>I know what you mean about the lonely times. Mine are still more rare than the 'happy' times, so I'm not concerned.<BR/><BR/>Like you, I get offers but I'm not ready to compromise my standards to get regular dick.<BR/><BR/>Take care, mate<BR/>xMs Smackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02921397003809292438noreply@blogger.com