Wednesday, February 21, 2007

Just one more time

Ok. I know I said I wouldn't. But I make no apologies for this.

Since I last blogged it, I have spoken to WhataWaste (as named by Cazzie!!!). I have a morbid phobia of awkwardness. So when he came down to do some work where I am, I really tried to make it as normal as possible. And just before he left to go back to his own world, he mentioned that we still had to catch up for drinks after work sometime.

And I thought: Yeah. He's still interested. Kinda lazy and unmotivated, but interested.

I sent him a text today letting him know I would be in the city pretty much every day until I went back to work, if it was more convenient for him to catch up there. And I got a reply. He's busy weeknights, maybe next weekend. He has plans for this weekend already...



....



he's going camping with his GIRLFRIEND!!!


Uh. Ok. Here's my freshly torn out heart. Its very small because you took it from someone who feels about 1.5 inches tall.

All I know is that if I were his girlfriend and I saw the texts I'd sent him trying to arrange us meeting up, I'd do my 'nana*. He's had plenty of chances to tell me that he was seeing someone. Such as

  • When I was fishing for info about who he spent New Years with ('mostly older people')
  • The time I joked about him not getting any on his birthday
  • The day after Valentines. WHEN WE WERE TALKING ABOUT WHAT WE DID THE NIGHT BEFORE.

I wouldn't date a guy like that anyway.

*'nana = some obscure Aussie reference to a tantrum. Pronounced like the last bit of banana. Hence the ' in front.

11 comments:

dirk.mancuso said...

***Big hug***

Men are jerks.

poody said...

I beleive the term for a man like this is Rat Bastard! Yep, I said it and so can you! Honey, life is too short and my motto is time wounds all heels!Hang in there you are better than that!

Me said...

Holy fuck. What an asshole.

I wanna throw a 'nana for you.

Steven Novak said...

Well, that's just a flat out piece of asshole'edry.

If you need me to smack him around a bit just let me know.

Steve~

Professor said...

What a HUGE JERK!!!! he's an ARSE!!! Good riddence! {{{{hugs]]]

mist1 said...

You are over him, right? Wanna go shoe shopping?

Cazzie!!! said...

Nope, he ain't a Whatawaste, he is a KNOB!!!! You deserve better honey that is for sure. When I come up your way we will surely go out and have fun and look about for Mr Right...and they may only see you AFTER my approval, LOL.

Cazzie!!! said...

Say, are you better now, hope so??

phishez_rule said...

Wow. That is the fastest I've ever had comments go up on my blog! For the record, if this guy does genuinely want to be friends then I'm psyched. But I won't ever let him be more.

Thanks for your support everyone.

Oh, and Mist, I do need new shoes. And a new vibrator. It'll be a real girly day of shopping.

Jana_no1 said...

One thing I have learned is not to piss you off. I think he just did that BIG TIME!!!!

He is not worth your time or your energy! You deserve someone who will treat you how you should be treated.

He is nothing but a F**%&ng Bastard!!

Josh said...

Sorry that guy was so shitty.

Don't forget, bananas can be suitable substitutes for men in a pinch.