I'm a sucker for punishment. Time and time again I've been told to stay away from a guy and I keep going back. Sometimes I tell myself that it doesn't really matter, that I'm not emotionally invested and never really will be.
This time it was different. I'm not saying that to justify it to anybody. This guy was better than the others. But I guess that even the better guys are inconsiderate scum.
Because he seemed better than the avarage amoeba I gave him a second shot. I zipped him a quick text asking if he wanted to reshedule. Two days ago. And have not heard a response.
I can be a little slow on the uptake when it comes to guys. I'm usually quite the realist (read: pessimist) when it comes to the way guys see me. But everything I knew told me this guy was interested. When I spoke to him early in the week he actually seemed surprised that I was talking about work stuff. So I didn't really see that coming.
I might get blown off once. But it rarely happens twice, and NEVER a third time. So unless he makes a damn sincere effort to change my mind (and it will take quite alot of work!) this is the last post about mancandy.
6 comments:
Honey, I think it's time to blow him off.
Yep, I'd be suspicious of the intentions and interest of a guy who put you off that long.
I love the word "mancandy," I might have to add that to my repertoire.
But, itis NOT about YOU, it is about HIM, and he got the problem girlee, not you!!! He don't deserve ya if he don't treat ya right. Hahaha, at Mancandy..perhaps he is just a "What-a-waste". :)
I am very slow "on the uptake" regarding women. At my age I am afraid I am too old to learn.
Mist - If I blew him off the way I think you're suggesting I'll never get rid of him!
Josh - yeah, any guy who isn't immediately interested has to be dodgy.
Cazzie - ROFLMFAO. "What a waste" sums him up perfectly.
Nick - you're never too old to learn
good ridance to the arse!
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