Thursday, August 16, 2007

Moral dilemma?

Is it wrong to meet up with someone purely for sex when you've asked someone else out (five weeks ago) and nothing has happened since, or looks like it will happen any time soon (schedule thing), though you're closer to him and you trust each other?

I'm in a bit of a pickle.

19 comments:

Pie said...

I don't think it's wrong. I suppose it depends on whether you can call it a relationship or not, if you've not gone out anywhere or really done anything together then I'm not sure you can. Still, the other guy may be pissed at it.

Stacy The Peanut Queen said...

I don't think it's wrong either. No one said anything about being exclusive, right? If not, go for it...;)

Anonymous said...

I would go for it too. As long as you like the guy there is no real reason to hold out for the 'maybe' of the other. Put your needs first, I say! :)

Miss Smack said...

I don't think there is anything wrong with it. If something does eventuate with the dude, then, i'm sure he'll understand that you will remain exclusive when he makes that committment to you.

I'm sure you wouldn't be expecting him to be celibate for you, before the first date, eh?

Obesio said...

I'm not being facetious here-- but I am not sure that I see the moral dilemma here. Are we supposed to be faithful to people that we are not even dating now?

Josh said...

No dilemma there. All bets are off until you commit to each other.

You never know what might turn up while you waiting for something that may not even happen.

Jenny! said...

Depends! But you should never turn down a good fucking!

Crushed by Ingsoc said...

How on earth do you see this as wrong?
Go for it!

Did you promise Green Eyes you wouldn't, while he dithers?

The T-Dude said...

Follow the advice from Nike:

Just do it.

Let's face it. You 're too young and too good looking to go a-wanting for a good boink when it is obviously available.

Chai said...

I dont think it'd be wrong in this case.

Mel said...

Sex is sex. Dating is dating. They can coexist quite happily, so if you want the sex, have the sex. No promises were made to the other party so you're technically a free agent. Shag at will!

Betty Boob Hug said...

Leave behind any guilt if you are going to go through with it, just so you can really have fun and swing from the ceiling fan.

5 weeks is a long time ago!

You didnt' know a shag was coming up :)

Lightning Bug's Butt said...

You're not in a pickle. You just need to have "pickle" in YOU.

Sometimes Saintly Nick said...

It doesn't sound like any commitments have been made or will be broken; thus, if you got a itch, scratch it.

fingers said...

Just fuck the guy and see if you feel gulty, Phish.
If you do, you're wrong but at least you got boned.
And if you don't, there was no dilemma...

muse said...

Looks like a landslide! Go the fucking distance!

It's easier to enter a relationship if you're not sexually frustrated-that's when we make the biggest mistakes. Think how much more relaxed you will be...

unique_stephen said...

fuck him and tell us all about it. That's an order.

You're never committed to each other until you've had at least one threesome with them any way.

Rups said...

No.

;) Rups

Josh said...

I don't think there's been any explicit commitment made yet, so I say go for it.